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I received my own personal copy of the deed scam that’s been going on forever. This is where a company, in this case New York Record Retrieval, Inc., offers to obtain for you a certified copy of your deed for the price of $59.50. Quite a bargain when you consider that such documents can be had from their source for the cost of the copy.

For entertainment value, here are other articles on the scam:

Another year closer to 40. :)

If you’re reading and ever wonder why I haven’t called, I’m working on that this year. Not exactly a resolution but something I need be thoughtful of.

I’m terrible at keeping in touch with distant friends to the point that if I even still have a working phone number, I feel guilty calling because it’s been so long. I’m better with email but as Maria quipped those are like “Harvey”, my imaginary friends, conversations no one can hear with people no one has seen. New Year’s being the opportunity to start things fresh, I started by emailing my friend Bill. We probably last spoke two years ago, emailed once or twice, hadn’t seen each other in at least ten years, but I got his new number and called. It was good to hear him, less awkward than I thought it would be, maybe because he’s doing well and sounds so happy. Given how busy we both are we probably won’t meet except by chance, but Bill has a gallery of his artwork on-line and with the call I feel a bit like I’ve caught up.

Which is encouraging. So don’t be surprised if you haven’t heard from me in a while and then get a call out of the blue (or an email, if I don’t have a number). I’m working on that this year.

Happy New Year!

It’s a bit different already. For one, it started three hours fifty minutes after some student renters down the block woke us by ringing in the day with hollering in the street and shooting off bottle-rockets when Nate woke up, jiggled open his door and came upstairs to tell us he was awake by climbing into our bed. Maria finally got him to settle down at five and then he woke at seven to really start the day. I let her sleep and took a nap when he did. For another, I had been up for almost six hours, vacuumed the rugs, dragged the xmas tree to the curb, shovelled the walks, tried to build a snowman with Nate and was watching him play in the snow when a couple of twenty-something guys walked by looking very lost and I overhead one of them say to the other, “Yeaaah! And that’s when you came out in your underwear!” It’s different.

The first winter storm left three inches of good, damp snowball snow. Nathan, bundled in snowpants, puffy jacket, boots, mittens, hat and hood so he looked like a garden statue-sized red and blue Michelin man, was not impressed, “Daddy, it cold outside. I go in. I have cocoa.” That’s his mother right there. That precipitation was followed a day later by a weather warning and six or seven inches of crisp powder. If I skiied, I might count vacation days and order lift tickets about that time but the conditions did not last as the storms dumped another inch or two of ice pellets and sleet then finished up last night with a dusting of icy snow.

It works for me. Today my employer announces bonuses and promotions, where you find out what the past eleven months and some-teen work days really meant, adjusted relative to firm performance. I have more than my measure of nervous energy. Twice yesterday I went out to fire up the snow blower to clear my driveway, walkway, my neighbor on the left’s walk, my neighbor on the right walk and driveway and my friend across the street’s walk. I helped a woman who lives across the street dig out her car that the city snow plow buried. I went out again in the afternoon to scrape and throw salt. Last night at 9 p.m. I shoveled the hoar of ice from my driveway, sidewalk, front walk and back walk. Afterward I resumed patching and skim coating in the spare room we’re fixing up. Speaking of old houses, you know what you find under forty year-old wallpaper? The remains of seventy year-old wallpaper. And what’s under that? Cracked plaster walls. I’m wiser but not happier for knowing.I am confident I made up for going only once to the gym this week.

I set the alarm twenty minutes early and woke ten minutes before that. The roads might be unpassable and I needed to be ready. Luck favors the prepared, so I spent an extra thirty five minutes waiting in the train station. Whee.

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